The Universe cares for Her own. I am taking a break from talking about the transgender experience in this article. Tomorrow should see…
Existential Discomfort: Where Transtrenders and Christians Agree
If you don’t know who you are, are you still there wherever you go?
When I was young, I wanted to be Adam Ant. My Adam Ant phase was during the 1980s, and I went to school one day in cream-colored pants…
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Death of a Name: On Transgender People, Transition, and Integration
I put on a new “Hello, my name is…” sticker every morning. Not for the people around me, to remind myself what name I’m using today.
I had to go to the courthouse today. I had to go to the courthouse today. — No, not for that — I filed my petition for a legal name change. I mentioned previously that choosing a…
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Taking a Shower: Identity and Insight into Gender and Sexuality Spectra
When keeping clean also means keeping the head clean.
I got a nice surprise this morning. Not because of the “taking a shower” part — I do that at least occasionally — but an insight that occurred during the act of showering…
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I Am a Transgender Harry Potter Fan
You may be surprised to hear this…
There is a rather large backlash raging against J.K. Rowling right now. Or maybe you aren’t surprised to hear this because you are in the group that she has targeted — indirectly…
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Gender Roles in the Context of Society
If I were born in a society with different gender roles, would I still identify myself as “transgender?”
In a conversation with Lauren Miller last week, I asked a question about the relationship between where she and I have grown up and our identification as transgender. (For reference, I grew up in the US; Lauren…
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On Sex, Gender, and the Origin of Thought
We are greater than our bodies and our psychology; we are human.
Recently, Kitty Whitemore published an article with a response asking whether her “internal narrator” “change[d] from masculine to feminine” as she transitioned from presenting as a man to presenting as a woman…
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Earning My Warrior Name
Only purple can save our Clan. Well…not really, but it did sound good for a moment.
In the article “Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman,” I discussed the Warriors series of books as an allegory for human life in general, and the transgender experience in particular. I will be using terminology…
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Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman
When the forest calls, do not hesitate. Run as if your life depends on it — it does.
My son discovered a series of books in the past year. In the United States, the series is called Warriors; it originated in the UK from several authors publishing under the pseudonym Erin Hunter. The official web site is…
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The Reflection
Sometimes you should not believe everything you see.
Before I jump into what I have named The Reflection, I want to summarize some of the points that I have tried to make so far. The first major point is the distinction between sex and gender. Although…
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