After time off, I am ready to announce the next phase of my work! Welcome to the February 2023 edition of “Ame’s Hammy Jamming!” Those of you following the Hammy Jamming posts (both of you!) may…
The Invisible Transfemme
I meddled with makeup that women really mustn’t leave alone. Seriously, my eyeliner is SO good!
At least I’m not running around nude, amirite? In the movie “The Invisible Man,” Claude Rains plays chemist Dr. Jack Griffin, who must wear full body wrap — hat, goggles, bandages, gloves, coat, boots — i…
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Sound Off: Using My Transgender Voice
The Marine Corps just got a lot more beautiful, Private!
What could be the nature of your primary difficulty, you silly goose? In the movie “Full Metal Jacket,” Gunnery Sergeant Hartman unleashes a fusillade of profanity, metaphor, insult, and nicknames upon a squa…
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From Wrecked-Up Friend to Transgender Gem
Sometimes you look back on life in a manner not as fond as you would have hoped. This is one of those times.
Something about slicing blocks with a pink lightsaber makes me feel like a true transgender woman. When the Meta Quest 2 virtual reality headset was released to market in 2020, I was sorely tempted
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Gender Transition: You Are Who You Have Always Been
Transgender people have layers, too, but only like parfait, not like onions.
“Who could ever love a beast so hideous and ugly?” Princess Fiona, “Shrek” In the movie “Shrek,” Princess Fiona is cursed to change from human to ogre form when the sun sets. She lives in constant fear…
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Blocked from Donating Blood: A Happy Coming-Out Story
Is lack of sleep worse than lack of oxygen? I was never able to find out.
When being a risk meant bonding with your community. I grew up in Los Angeles in the 1980s and 1990s. Diversity — while certain circles…
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The Five Favorite Phrases Challenge
Because Phive Phavorite Phrases just plain looks weird.
Yet another excuse to indulge my vanity! The Five Favorite Phrases (Frases?) Challenge is simple — report the five phrases you love…and the five phrases you hate. It sounds easy, but I had to go through a day…
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Finding My Name: From Childhood Pain to Transgender Pride
For those times when the answer to “What’s in a name?” is “Not a dang thing.”
“May I have your name?” asked the Fey Prince. “Yeah, sure — I’m not using it,” answered Amethysta v1.0. In myths of the Fae — also…
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Your Identity Is Non-negotiable
I blocked my mother on Facebook.
Purge your life of people who choose not to support you in being who you are. I came out as a transgender woman in August, 2022 — six weeks after I had begun gender-affirming hormone therapy. It took…
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Drive vs. Talent: Learning to Care for My Transgender Self
When our self-care is worse than the pain we try to soothe, there is only one available action: tell society to get bent.
Before I accepted my transgender, my life’s work was killing myself. A recent conversation about the most interesting people I met evolved…
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